|B "Why would you think I am selfish? Because I want someone to sign a prenup after I worked my butt off for all these years? I am not talking about, if someone was with me from......"
R interrupts "why do you want to continue arguing about this? Is it just because you want to win a point?"
B (yelling) NO! I want to understand why you are upset with me!
You keep saying I am selfish and I don't know what I have done to make you think that I am selfish!"
R "Why can you not drop it right now and speak about it at a later date?"
B "Cuz it bothers me that you are so concerned about this game!"
R (passive aggressive tone) "I am, okay. You're right. I am because I have spent.....taken time out of my life, spent plenty of time trying to get myself here" (B keeps saying "you convinced me, you convinced me" while R is speaking)
B "You told me you were in love with me" Silence, and then...
R "Well brendon that is what you told me too, but then you totally contradict yourself inside when you talk about all this other stuff. And how loves not real, and how people screw each other over and how people change and all this other crap. And how you are very jaded"
B "ughhhh, ohhh"
R "Soooo...and it's selfish for you to sit there and discuss these things in front of me with such passion and emotion that it hurts me!"
B "I am sorry"
R "That is selfish" (cocky) "If you want to keep it real, that is selfish!"
R "Cuz if you want to take in account MY feelings, the person that is closest to you (getting louder) and you are discussing something in front of the ENTIRE house something that I feel so PASSIONATELY against, and instead of DROPPING IT......That is selfish!"
(during this B keeps saying okay, okay but R keeps going on and on) R "I walked away, because I didn't want to listen to it because it was upsetting me. And you want to keep talking about it and keep discussing it when I have asked you NUMEROUS TIMES for you to please not press the issue, please stop discussing it, THAT IS SELFISH. It has nothing to do with the prenup it has to do with everything else Brendon. I don't give a F about money or prenup or whatever, but do I think that it is really stupid that you would say that? Yeah, I think it is really stupid, really f'n stupid, but I am never going to change the way you think so I am not going to even try, but to continue to argue about it when it makes someone you claim to care about upset...." B "I am sorry, okay I didn't know...." R "THAT IS SELFISH!"
B "I didn't know it was making you that upset. I knew you were arguing with me, it's just...."
R (interrupts ) "I am sorry that I BELIEVE in love and..." B (angry) "Who says I don't believe in love?"
R (ignores him) "And you arguing with me when I am trying to speak and make a point, that is selfish! So would you please just listen to me for a minute before you rebuttal?"
B (meekly) "okay)
R "I am different from you, we are not the same person. I am going to have different ideals and thoughts about everything, a lot of things, that is not bad! That is normal and good! If we were the same person we would get boring. However, I do believe in love and that when you get married that it is not, or even when you fall in love, I have been hurt plenty of times! I will tell you plenty of stories in three months, and they're f'd up stories. Plenty! I am not going to tell you now but I will tell you plenty in three months. But I have never, ever looked at two people as the same person ever. Ever!"
Argument stops and laughing ensues when BB asks the house guests to move the awnings in the southwest areas of the BY.
(are you enjoying this recap or is it too much? If you like it, send me a message and I will continue, because I thought it was a pretty good agrument between the two.)