She says he can't pick and choose when to be a parent...feels her only family is her grandmother.
She's saying he wants to be a friend...can't do that then be a father.
Says when she talks to him, she doesn't always want advice...she just wants to vent...he's saying he just wants to try to make things better...she understands that, but doesn't want him to do that.
Dani saying she doesn't know if she can let things go...ED says she's the one who doesn't talk to him...she says he's supposed to be the adult, the parent...(ed. missing lots...)
Dani says she's nothing like anyone in her family..no one understands her....but she's glad she's different.
ED says he's never been a teenage girl and it's been very hard for him. Dani says she didn't ask to be here (don't think she's referring to BB here)...says it causes problems with the other side of the family and she always gets blamed for everything.
Now she's starting to cry and say she's not having fun in BB and doesn't want to be there. Everything is so frustrating.
ED is talking very calmly to her and trying to get through. Dani is very upset and crying about the fakeness in the game and their relationship.
She says no one understands what she's going through in the house. ED says he does..he's shed a lot of tears in there.
She says sometimes it's not worth being there...ED says she's doing fine...it will all be fine and he's sorry if he doesn't give her enough credit.
ED: I've never given up on you and I will never give up on you. You're my daughter and I love you very much. I know sometimes you dot believe that, but its true.
Dani says nothing...is crying. ED is rubbing her leg, trying to comfort her...she's crying hard with her hands over her face.
ED is crying now too. He says he's trying to do the best he can. "Just because I'm older, doesn't mean I have everything figured out."
Ed says he wants he to have fun in the house...HOH has been stressful and the situation with Nick...
Dani has stopped crying mostly, but still looks upset.
ED: You've become a beautiful, smart, kind-hearted woman. I'm very proud of you.
Ed says he needs help on how to talk to her...
Dani starts yelling at him about the way he talks to her "you say I'll roll my eyes"...she's saying it's so frustrating. "You think you know everything about me and you know nothing!"
Dani said he kept calling and calling her and she didn't call back and then he kept calling and calling more and it was so frustrating for her. She's mad that he got mad when she didn't return his calls.
Ed now talking about how hard it's been dealing with HOH and the people in there while he is trying to build a bridge to repair their relationship.
Dani says ED is like a mean friend and why should she want that around. "you don't even know me!" She's upset that ED called her selfish when she says she's one of the most self-less people she knows.
ED saying he can only go from his perspective...
Dani says he's said mean things that she will never, ever forget. Ed says she's said very mean things to him as well. Dani says "but you're supposed to be the father!"
ED: But you don't want me to be the father.
ED" All I want is a commitment from yoiu that you'll just try.
Dani: OK
ED asks for a hug...says please a couple times. She doesn't.
ED: "It has to start somewhere...it may take a lot of time, but we can fix it." "I love you so much. There's a huge empty space in my life without yo. I think about you every single day." He's crying a lot now.
D:"I never abandoned you and I never will. I'm trying. I won't give up trying. I love you so much."
He keeps trying to hug her, but she has her hands around he face and won't hug back. He rubs her hair and is whispering something to her...gives her a kiss on the cheek.
ED: I'm sorry you don't find my jokes funny. I can be an idiot.
ED says when he 1st came in the house with the Alice stuff it brought back them going to auditions for he to be Alice "and now here you are...you really are Alice here."
ED: "I miss you so much. I miss talking to you. I miss your company. there's been a big hole in my life without you there."
Dani is still not talking...is sniffling.
ED: I can't change anything from the past, but I can try to change things in the future. I can't promise I won't F up because I will. I'm an idiot.
ED says he looks back all the times he thought he was doing the right thing, he was doing the wrong thing. He says she should have been trying to figure out what they had in common...making a bond. "I'm sorry." "I miss you so much" "When I 1st got here, I thought how can I miss my daughter so much when she's right here?"
ED is crying. Dani has stopped...looks sad/angry.
ED: "I've never done this before. How am I supposed to know how to do this? I don't even know how to do my own life." "I'm an idiot. But I have a good heart. I am a good person." |
